Jan 14, 2022The Tao of Sensitivity, 10 Principles for HSPs to Live ByI have been attracted lately to the Chinese philosophy of Taoism. Attributed to Lao Tzu, the Tao Te Jing, or the book of The Way, is a wise book that instructs its readers on how to live life in harmony and balance. It is a small book filled with paradoxes…Hsp5 min readHsp5 min read
Dec 19, 2021Highly Sensitive People and DivorceAt some point in your life, divorce will touch you. It could be you, a friend, a family member, or even your parents. Divorce touches us all. Because HSPs feel more deeply, this can mean that we can be more impacted by strong emotions and the adverse effects of couple…Hsp6 min readHsp6 min read
Sep 28, 2021The Concept of Ubuntu — On Being HumanIn previous blogs, I have repeatedly stated that I think we often get too hung up on qualities surrounding gender, what is masculine and feminine. Instead, let us emphasize the importance of being human first. …Hsp6 min readHsp6 min read
Sep 12, 2021The Sensitive Man — Wordplay — The Poetic Language of HSPsA Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High Sensing Male HSP’s experience deep thoughts and deep emotions that sometimes are difficult to express in common language. Because we sense the subtle nuances in our environments, there is often a problem of not having the right nomenclature…Hsp6 min readHsp6 min read
Jul 30, 2021DMT to Gamma to FlowNote: This article is largely speculative and was written to generate thoughtful conversation on flow state, gamma brainwaves, DMT, and the relationship of the three. It is to be taken as such. In a recent blog article I published for Highly Sensitive Refuge, I wrote about flow state and its…Hsp7 min readHsp7 min read
Jul 12, 2021The Sensitive Man — What is Neurodivergence? Are HSPs in this category?The Sensitive Man — What is Neurodivergence? Are HSPs in this category? A term has surfaced recently into my consciousness: neurodivergent. What does this mean? There is a movement afoot to expand the view of what we consider normal brain functioning that would now include many developmental disorders that would…Hsp6 min readHsp6 min read
Jun 25, 2021I See and Remain Silent, the HSP SuperpowerMost HSPs I know assume that we as a group are mostly introverts (which is true, about 70%), quiet and observant types. This idea often serves us well in assessing situations and navigating through life. One of our primary traits is the trait of observing and then processing — deeply…Hsp6 min readHsp6 min read
May 29, 2021HSPs and Default Mode NetworkWhat do you think it is that makes HSPs so self-reflective? We inherently have the internals for deep processing, deep reflection, and deep emotional churn, but is this all that is at play here? Is this a sufficient explanation? In reading Michael Pollen’s book, How to Change Your Mind: What…Highly Sensitive People6 min readHighly Sensitive People6 min read
May 5, 2021The Sensitive Man — HSPs, Emotions and Mind DisciplineA Blog about Sensory Processing Sensitivity from the Worldview of a High Sensing Male One of the big four traits of Highly Sensitive People is the propensity for overstimulation, often referred to as overwhelm. Sensory inputs become too much to handle, and the finely tuned HSP systems begin to shut…Hsp9 min readHsp9 min read
Apr 7, 2021The Art of Disagreement for HSPsDo you remember the last time you were in an argument? How did it go? How did you feel after the argument/disagreement ended? Did you feel heard? Did you get overly emotional or discombobulated? Were you able to defend your position or at least feel you made your point? …Sensitivity6 min readSensitivity6 min read